That spoils it for everyone else.
Caroline Haines is founder and organiser of the wittily named charity competition for club golfers, the Lina Shore Classic, which attracts sporty, professional lesbians in the 35-plus age group.
Eleven years ago, Sandy Sachs and Robin Gans, owners of the Los Angeles lesbian club Girl Bar, came to the tournament, were bored rigid, and saw an opportunity.
They don't touch the Girl Bar events, oh no.
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They don't want us, so why should we go? I'm sure the feeling of being unwelcome at the golf is why the weekend has become much more of a social event than a sporting one.