Smittinn Kittinn By On TastyTuesday, I talked about.
My next task is that of arbiter and lawmaker.
I do see why it picked those, however.
The power of a blow is only potential until the blow actually lands, because the strike could be pulled, redirected, softened, etc.
If you wish, you may continue until you and your partner feel enough time has passed, your partner achieves climax or the safeword is given, or you may proceed to the optional next step.
And if he refuses to respect your boundaries I would really rethink the dynamic.