She gave up drinking alcohol, and quit smoking — her dressing room was off-limits to anyone who smoked — and she swore off all drugs, even aspirin.
We allowed the elder to go topless from that stage on the younger was to follow suit a couple of years later because that was the only way for her not to have hard nipples all the time and actually not to feel aroused.
I was playing along, and hoping that once my hearing came back, we would still be together.