A little bit of coconut oil goes a long way.
I like pretty firm pressure and just rubbing in circles, nothing too fancy.
The perfect scenario for me is when my partner penetrates me with two or three fingers and thrusts gently and firmly while licking my clitoris or tending to it with her fingers or a vibrator.
Certainly not tracing the alphabet on me or anything.
Check out some pretty heated sex action with skillful and horny babe, that makes her boyfriend try very hard to satisfy all her needs.
For an amazing tingle, mix a drop of peppermint essential oil with the coconut oil—and oh, boy.