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I asked my husband if he had a better idea.
Your doctor or a pharmacist can suggest over-the-counter vaginal lubricants or moisturizers to use.
For both men and women, it may take longer to become aroused, and for some men, it may be difficult to have or maintain an erection.
I am aware of several such arrangements in my locality because of my line of work.
Here, too, talking with a doctor, nurse, or social worker with training in dementia care may be helpful.